Designing Private Family Networks
Why private-by-default matters
Families optimize for trust, not engagement. A private network keeps memories findable and consent‑based, with data that stays yours.
Principles we apply
- Ownership: your data stays yours — export any time
- Consent: per‑post visibility for family circles (not public feeds)
- Calm: no ad targeting, no infinite‑scroll pressure
| Principle | What it means | Feature |
|---|---|---|
| Ownership | You control access and export | GEDCOM import/export, media downloads |
| Consent | Share to circles, not "everyone" | Per‑post visibility, invite‑only families |
| Calm | No engagement traps | Chronological Memory Lane, gentle notifications |
| Structure | Context that lasts years | People, place, date, events linked to tree |
From principles to product
These values shape features like Family Announcements, Memory Lane, Connections Map, and Trusted Chat.
Anti‑patterns we avoid
- Default‑public posts and forced discovery
- Engagement algorithms that bury important context
- Dark patterns around invites, contacts, or sharing
- Data sales or training public AI models
Consent patterns that feel natural
Start private. Choose circles like Grandparents or Cousins. Switch visibility later if needed — and keep an audit of who can see what.
Designing for all ages
Readable type, high contrast, and clear actions — with accessible transcripts for audio/video and support for multiple languages in captions and posts.
FAQs
- Do you run ads or trackers?
- No. Kunbaa is subscription‑based and ad‑free. We don’t sell data or train public models on your content.
- Can I export my data?
- Yes. We support GEDCOM import/export for tree data and media downloads for your archives.
- How does this work with genealogy tools?
- Use discovery platforms like MyHeritage or Ancestry for research, and keep living, consent‑based stories in Kunbaa. Bring key lines via GEDCOM when helpful.
- Is it safe for kids and elders?
- Yes. You control invites and circles. Accessibility and calm defaults keep the experience considerate for every generation.
Preserve stories that outlast chat threads
Organize memories with dates, people, and places — share with the right circles, never public by default.
- Structured memoriesAdd names, places, and timelines.
- Searchable archiveFind moments years later without scrolling.
- Respectful privacyNo ads, no data sales.
Summaries, transcripts, and gentle reminders
Let Guru (AI) help with light editing and accessibility — without training public models on your data.
- Fast recapsTurn long posts into short highlights.
- Captions & transcriptsImprove accessibility and search.
- Kind nudgesStay on top of family events and tasks.
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